Dear readers,
First, how are you? Hope that you're all ok and that this new year has begin well for you!
And, in this new year, I don't know why...not excatly why at least, this question (see title) although I think it has been in my mind for quite a...well, since a bit maybe, but lately it has been more present...maybe it comes with the fact that we're all growing up , more often thinking about it, asking or wondering questions on that subject and with all its represent...I guess! :)seeing our friends be with someone, getting all serious or wanting to get married in the near future...
Though all that would come with a lot of...er....well sorry again I might risk to repeat myself quite a lot, hope it won't be too much...(laugh) don't worry, I- anyway, let's come back to our sheep...where was I? Oh, yes, being with someone...going into relationship(s), going into the highway...scary, no? unless you're with the right person? hum...I think it's hard to tell...or at least it's different for everyone....don't you think? Between the one who have more experience than others...but the questions I'm wondering about or maybe you do too...is: What's love? How does it work? How do you do it? There is a lot of things said, a lot of theory exchanged, debates on radio or TV, people discussing about it, books written, movies made, family, friends, connaissance, unknown people also talking on the subject...but in the end there isn't really a manual which tell you exactly what to do, is there? You have to figure it out yourself, along the way...try to move on, with your instincts,or listening to your heart, to your family and close friends...making mistakes (or trying not to), learning from it...moving foward....
Also, what I wonder is when you're with that person, you have to learn to know each other, how do you do that? I mean...how do you learn to trust the other? How do you know you won't get hurt? How do...know all that stuff? And sometimes you have (hopefully not too many times lol) to do it all over again...hoping you'll find the right one...:) I guess it'll always be a bit of a mistery or something like that...(smile) It's surely something that when you know...well...you know. No? :) There is not a rational explanation...is there?
On that subject and not being an experte (chut! it's a secret! don't tell! smile discreet), and if I have other questions, which would come later on my mind, I'll put them!
And, have a good debate! See you soon for another article, take care, xxx
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